Well of course these are good signs but it is not time to
breakout the champagne...yet. First of all, you have to ask the obvious. Do you really want
your ex back in the first place? Assuming you do, you need to take it slow or you will find
yourself out in the cold again.
Since your ex is showing signs of warming draw them
in even more. The best way to do that is by playing a little hard to get. Don't be obnoxious
about it however. Just play it cool. Not immediately diving back into their arms (or the bed)
is a good place to start.
Often times when a couple has been in a relationship for any
length of time and then they break up there is a natural tendency to miss each other. This is
especially true for a couple that has been together for over a year. Let's face it, you spent a
lot of time with each another and there are a lot of memories.
Those are your memories together and no one can
take them away from you. There is also a natural tendency to miss the person behind those
memories. So if you are thinking "does my ex want me back", there is a good chance with all
those nice memories floating around they are thinking the same thing as you.
Beware of the trap though... Ex lovers will sometimes show
interest again after a break up but they are just playing a mind game. They may be feeling
insecure and see clearly you still love them and are just want attention but have no
intention of ever getting back with you.
Make sure that your ex really does have some genuine interest
in you. They may just be in a holding pattern until they find someowe else.
Or even worse are that your memories and their memories
of your old relationship are very different. They may be looking for some kind of revenge
for a past action you may have taken. This is not likely, but just make sure you are reading
the situation correctly before you put your heart on the line again.
When there are a few signs of life between you and your ex a
lot of people want to know "does my ex want me back?" Unless you want your heart put through a
blender again it's best to make sure you know where you ex is going with their new interest in
you. Playing a little hard to get keeps you in the game but does not open you up to another
heart thrashing if your ex's heart is not with yours.
